Ten Reasons to Plant a Church, Part 8 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #128)

Daniel Whyte III

Daniel Whyte III

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is John 10:16
which reads: “And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold: them
also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice; and there shall be
one fold, and one shepherd.”

Allow me to share with you some insights regarding this Scripture from
David Guzik’s Commentaries on the Bible:

These other sheep are Gentile believers, not of the fold of Israel.
Jesus said that He must bring these sheep also, who would also hear
His voice. Jesus is basically saying, “Do not imagine that I shall lay
down my life for the Jews, exclusively of all other people; no: I
shall die also for the Gentiles; for by the grace, the merciful design
and loving purpose of God, I am to taste death for every man; and,
though they are not of this fold now, those among them that believe
shall be united with the believing Jews, and made one fold under one

A fold of sheep is a part of the flock in its own structure or
enclosure. A shepherd might separate the sheep into different groups
to care for them better. There is one flock and one shepherd; but
Jesus calls His sheep from more than one fold (group or structure of

Our soul winning quote today is from Richard C. Halverson. He said:
“Evangelism is not salesmanship It is not urging people, pressing
them, coercing them, overwhelming them, or subduing them. Evangelism
is telling a message. Evangelism is reporting good news.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 111 of our series titled “What
Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler. And, I want to
remind you to take advantage of our special offer. If you enjoy this
podcast, please feel free to purchase a copy of this book —
“Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence.” It
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Ten Reasons to Plant a Church (Part 8)

8. Church Planting Brings the Hands and Heart of Jesus into the Lives
of Needy People

Two thousand years ago the miraculous act of God’s incarnation (taking
human flesh) did not merely reveal Him as a man; it also served to
model evangelism to mankind. When the Word became flesh, believers
learned the importance of enfolding proclamation into incarnation. It
is not enough merely to tell the gospel; it must be lived out with and
before people in Christian communities.

The New Testament way of “living Jesus” with, and before, hurting
people was and still is through His body, the church. A healthy church
is the body of Christ on earth. Establishing a new church brings the
hands and heart of Jesus into the lives of needy people.

In 2003, Roscoe and Maryanna Lilly moved to Clifton Park, New York,
and began serving the community by washing car windows in the mall
parking lot and cleaning public restrooms without charge. As a result,
the Northstar Church was born with a handful of people. They are
passionate about being the hands and feet of Jesus, making Him
relevant to their community. They exist to show God’s love in such a
way that people will exchange ordinary living for an extraordinary
life through the power of Jesus Christ. Last year, the young and
growing congregation clocked more than 1,600 community service hours.
They say their ministry embodies a formula they call SALT, which is:

Seeing people the way Jesus saw them.
Accepting people the way Jesus accepted them.
Loving people the way Jesus loved them.
Touching people the way Jesus touched them.

In our next podcast, we will continue looking at Ten Reasons to Plant a Church.

* * * * * * * * Let’s Pray * * * * * * * *

Dear friend, if you do not know the Lord Jesus Christ as your Savior,
may I encourage you to get to know Him today.

First, accept the fact that you are a sinner, and that you have broken
God’s law. The Bible says in Romans 3:23: “For all have sinned and
come short of the glory of God.”

Second, accept the fact that there is a penalty for sin. The Bible
states in Romans 6:23: “For the wages of sin is death…”

Third, accept the fact that you are on the road to hell. Jesus Christ
said in Matthew 10:28: “And fear not them which kill the body, but are
not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to
destroy both soul and body in hell.” Also, the Bible states in
Revelation 21:8: “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the
abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers and sorcerers, and
idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which
burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”

Now this is bad news, but here’s the good news. Jesus Christ said in
John 3:16: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten
Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have
everlasting life.” Just believe in your heart that Jesus Christ died
for your sins, was buried, and rose from the dead by the power of God
for you so that you can live eternally with Him. Pray and ask Him to
come into your heart today, and He will.

Romans 10:9-13 says, “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the
Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him
from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth
unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto
salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall
not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the
Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him.
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”

Until next time,

Keep the soul winner’s fire!

Daniel Whyte III has spoken in meetings across the United States and in over twenty-five foreign countries. He is the author of over forty books including the Essence Magazine, Dallas Morning News, and Amazon.com national bestseller, Letters to Young Black Men. He is also the president of Gospel Light Society International, a worldwide evangelistic ministry that reaches thousands with the Gospel each week, as well as president of Torch Ministries International, a Christian literature ministry.

He is heard by thousands each week on his radio broadcasts/podcasts, which include: The Prayer Motivator Devotional, The Prayer Motivator Minute, as well as Gospel Light Minute X, the Gospel Light Minute, the Sunday Evening Evangelistic Message, the Prophet Daniel’s Report, the Second Coming Watch Update and the Soul-Winning Motivator, among others.

He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Theology from Bethany Divinity College, a Bachelor’s degree in Religion from Texas Wesleyan University, a Master’s degree in Religion, a Master of Divinity degree, and a Master of Theology degree from Liberty University’s Rawlings School of Divinity (formerly Liberty Baptist Theological Seminary). He is currently a candidate for the Doctor of Ministry degree.

He has been married to the former Meriqua Althea Dixon, of Christiana, Jamaica since 1987. God has blessed their union with seven children.

Evangelism Is… a Family Affair (The Soul-Winning Motivator #113)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Joshua 24:15 which reads: “And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Our soul winning quote today is from John F. Kennedy. He said: “There are risks and costs to a program of action, but they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 96 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from “Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence” by Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…A Family Affair

According to statistics from the American Family Association as stated in the book Family to Family by Jerry Pipes and Victor Lee:
• Only 34 percent of America’s families eat one meal together each day.
• The average father spends only eight to 10 minutes a day with his children. This includes television and mealtimes.
• Only 12 percent of America’s families pray together.
• The average couple spends only four minutes of uninterrupted time together a day.

If these statistics are accurate, no wonder the American family and the American church are being systematically dismantled. One result of this tragedy is the long-term impact on teenagers when they go off to college. According to Pipes and Lee, “88 percent of those who grow up in our evangelical churches leave at 18 and do not come back.”

While such statistics are alarming, there is hope for these teenagers and their parents. According to another study that is quoted in the Family to Family promotional video, “When parents lead their children in sharing their faith and engaging the spiritual harvest, the 88 percent fallout drops to less than 4 percent.”

If this is indeed the case, than families must become intently focused on a common mission that is passed to future generations. The obvious question is how.

Evangelism Is… Working Together (The Soul-Winning Motivator #112)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Ecclesiastes 4:9 which reads: “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”

Our soul winning quote today is from Joel Comiskey. He said: “The group aspect of cell or small-group evangelism takes the burden off the leader and places it on everyone in the cell or small group. It’s net fishing as opposed to pole fishing. Pole fishing is done individually, while net fishing requires the help of many hands. Net fishing is a group effort and results in catching more fish, while fishing individually with a pole catches one fish at a time.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 95 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from “Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence” by Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Working Together

Doing evangelism with a group is another effective way to share the gospel. Reaching people through the power of a team is not merely practical; it is biblical. Luke 5:17-25 reads:

And it came to pass on a certain day, as he was teaching, that there were Pharisees and doctors of the law sitting by, which were come out of every town of Galilee, and Judaea, and Jerusalem: and the power of the Lord was present to heal them. And, behold, men brought in a bed a man which was taken with a palsy: and they sought means to bring him in, and to lay him before him. And when they could not find by what way they might bring him in because of the multitude, they went upon the housetop, and let him down through the tiling with his couch into the midst before Jesus. And when he saw their faith, he said unto him, Man, thy sins are forgiven thee. And the scribes and the Pharisees began to reason, saying, Who is this which speaketh blasphemies? Who can forgive sins, but God alone? But when Jesus perceived their thoughts, he answering said unto them, What reason ye in your hearts? Whether is easier, to say, Thy sins be forgiven thee; or to say, Rise up and walk? But that ye may know that the Son of man hath power upon earth to forgive sins, (he said unto the sick of the palsy,) I say unto thee, Arise, and take up thy couch, and go into thine house. And immediately he rose up before them, and took up that whereon he lay, and departed to his own house, glorifying God.

Without his friends this man would not have met Jesus. He’d still be lying at home in grief, guilt, and depression. His life was changed because they brought him to Jesus. His sins were forgiven because of their faith. He was healed because they carried him to the house, they dug a hole in the roof, and they lowered him down in front of Jesus. Without his friends this man would not have met Jesus.

Few people come to Jesus on their own. Most of us meet Jesus because of the invitation of a family member or friend. Eighty-five percent of the people who meet Jesus do so because they were brought to him by a friend or family member.

Evangelism Is… Creating Opportunities for Gospel Conversations, Part 2 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #111)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is 1 John 1:1-2 which reads: “That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us).”

Our soul winning quote today is from Toby Frost. He said: “The church has too often closed itself behind institutional walls. Evangelistic Block Parties provide churches with a ministry of presence and visibility as the church moves out of its building in Christ’s name to feed, teach, clothe, and evangelize.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 94 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from “Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence” by Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Creating Opportunities for Gospel Conversations (Part 2)

Creating Opportunities Through Evangelistic Events/Ministries

Evangelistic Block Parties

Evangelistic block parties are among the easiest and most effective outreach events. They generally consist of a registration table (everyone gets registered in order to receive tickets for lunch or to win door prizes), a popcorn machine, a snow-cone machine, a cotton candy machine, helium tanks for lots of balloons, plus plenty of tables, chairs, and pop-up tents in case of bad weather. You can also use a grill for the hot dogs, hamburgers, or barbecue chicken; or you can prepare nachos, chili, or whatever is popular in your community. Typical activities include seven to 10 simple games, moonwalks, and face painting. The block party can be held on the church campus or preferably at a local park or school. Church members usually blitz the community with invitations several times in the weeks leading up to the party and always on the morning of the event. As people arrive, smiling Christians of all ages greet them and assist in directing the families to different activities.

In many cases these simple encounters lead to divine opportunities to share a brief testimony and, in some cases, to make a gospel presentation. This is why all workers receive training ahead of time and why you plan in advance to follow up immediately (within the first three to five days) with every registered nonchurch member. The follow-up is a good time to combine servant-evangelism activities by taking a small gift (cookies, McDonald’s gift certificates) when visiting the homes of registered guests.

An average block party will last approximately three to four hours. This is advisable for the stamina of both the workers and the participants.

Evangelism Is… Creating Opportunities for Gospel Conversations (The Soul-Winning Motivator #110)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Acts 4:20 which reads: “For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.”

Our soul winning quote today is from David Wheeler. He said: “One of the keys to effective evangelism is creating opportunities for interaction that may lead to gospel conversations….This is especially true in contemporary culture where trust is elusive and busy people tend to isolate themselves from human contact.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 93 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from “Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence” by Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

In a day when crime is high and trust is low, busy people tend to isolate themselves from contact with others. This can make sharing the gospel challenging. While there are no easy solutions, creative thinking and subsequent approaches can open doors. Here is a collection from David Wheeler of best practices of activities that create witnessing opportunities.

Creating Opportunities Through Intentional Relationships

1. Community Groups
Community groups are a major outreach tool at Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Virginia. The groups are designed to get unchurched and/or dechurched people in the church buildings for the purpose of meeting their needs and giving the gospel a chance to be heard by these people who need it most. The groups offer numerous types of educational and practical opportunities such as crafts, hunting and fishing, car repair and restoration, preparing tax returns, gourmet cooking, guitar lessons, golf, Moms of Preschoolers, and much more. The approach is a unique combination of both servant evangelism and ministry evangelism. While it is done on the church property, this effort requires incarnational intervention through the stair-step process we discussed in an earlier broadcast:

• Win the person to yourself.
• Win the person to the church.
• Win the person to Christ.

In addition, church members are encouraged to pray for participants, care for participants; and to share with unsaved participants. The groups meet on the church property for eight weeks, three times a year (mid-September to Thanksgiving, February through March, and May through June). Promotion of the groups and recruiting occurs in the off months. The sessions meet for one hour on Wednesday evenings, which includes a brief devotional (usually from Our Daily Bread).

As time goes by, the aim is to look for connection points during the weeks and eventually to invite people to come for Sunday services. Church members are prayerfully intentional but careful not to rush the process.

Evangelism Is… Volunteering (The Soul-Winning Motivator #109)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Luke 10:27 which reads: “And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.”

Our soul winning quote today is from Everett Mámor. He said: “The world is hugged by the faithful arms of volunteers.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 92 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Volunteering

David Wheeler writes:

When I was a kid, I loved Batman. My friends liked Superman, Spiderman, the Hulk, Captain America, the Green Hornet, and even Wonder Woman. Not me, I was always a fan of Batman!

It may have been his cool outfit with the black mask or his ability to climb buildings. Maybe it was the Bat Cave or the fact that he was the only superhero who drove a car, the Batmobile. Who knows, for whatever reason, I loved Batman. I have never understood the need for Robin, but I still loved Batman!

As I grew older, my passion for superheroes diminished, and I realized that you do not have to wear tights and a ridiculous suit to be superhuman. One reason I liked Batman was the fact that he was a somewhat regular guy in real life. Bruce Wayne was a millionaire who could have ignored the plight of humanity. On the contrary his response was to spend his money, to volunteer his time, and to risk his life in order to assist others. When Bruce Wayne became Batman, he was like thousands of volunteers in the church who give of themselves in order to lead hurting humanity to Christ! If you want to become a superhero, the first thing to do is to become a willing volunteer.

On one occasion Jesus told a story about two men who started and ended as strangers, but one of their lives was forever changed by their encounter. The story was born as Jesus was being questioned by a teacher of the law about eternal life.

Luke 10:25–27 says: “And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life? He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou? And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.”

The Jewish teacher then asked a significant question, “And who is my neighbor?” Jesus’ response was to tell the story of the good Samaritan.

Evangelism Is… Asking for a Response, Part 3 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #108)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Matthew 7:13-14 which reads: “Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.”

Our soul winning quote today is from Jacquelyn K. Heasley. She said: “How you believe God perceives people will determine how you respond to them.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 91 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Asking for a Response (Part 3)

Reasons We Don’t Ask for a Response

Here are some reasons Christians will share the gospel but fail to extend an invitation and ask for a response.

If the Person Says No, How Should I Respond?

The fear of rejection is always the most stated hesitation for not intentionally asking people to respond to the gospel message. Understandably, most people want to be liked and do not want to encounter conflict. They are somehow convinced that people are predisposed to saying no and will not listen.

This is, however, a deceptive misconception created by Satan. If the gospel is presented in a clear and loving manner by an obedient messenger, the person who says no is usually not rejecting the individual but rejecting Christ.

Therefore, if the response is no, ask why. After all, hesitation could be a simple misunderstanding. The key is the leadership of the Holy Spirit. If the person is persistent in giving a no answer, simply back away and ensure that your prayers will continue. Offer to answer any questions and to continue the conversation in the future.

Asking for a Response Seems Unnatural and Forced

People freely discuss sporting events, hobbies, or grandchildren! Unfortunately, the same is not true when it comes to intentionally asking for a response as the result of sharing one’s faith. Often the witness begins to feel awkward and even weird. Such conversations may seem unnatural and pushy. But why?

Paul reminded the Ephesian Christians that we are involved in a spiritual war. Ephesians 6:12 says: “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”

The bottom line is that when a person shares Christ, the witness is being opposed by the dark forces of Satan. As the limited ruler of this earthly domain, he will not easily relinquish a soul into the hands of Christ without a desperate battle. The oppression the witness feels is often spiritual warfare.

Don’t fear; the God who is in you is greater than the enemy who is in the world.

Evangelism Is… Asking for a Response, Part 2 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #107)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Matthew 7:8 which reads: “For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.”

Our soul winning quote today is from Roy Fish. He said: “From beginning to end, invitations are extended in scripture. God’s probing question to Adam in the garden, “Where art thou?” in Genesis 3 is something of an invitation. The final chapter of the Bible contains an invitation, “And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him who heareth say, come. And let him who is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely. Holy scripture reverberates with invitations to lost humanity to turn to God for forgiveness and new life.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 90 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Asking for a Response (Part 2)

Jesus Extended Public Invitations

Jesus’ first sermon was a public call to repentance.

Matthew 4:12-17 reads: “Now when Jesus had heard that John was cast into prison, he departed into Galilee; and leaving Nazareth, he came and dwelt in Capernaum, which is upon the sea coast, in the borders of Zabulon and Nephthalim: that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Esaias the prophet, saying, the land of Zabulon, and the land of Nephthalim, by the way of the sea, beyond Jordan, Galilee of the Gentiles; the people which sat in darkness saw great light; and to them which sat in the region and shadow of death light is sprung up. From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.”

Throughout Jesus’ earthly ministry, He publicly called people to make a decision to follow Him. Peter, Andrew, James, and John received public invitations as they were fishing.

Matt 4:18–22 says: “And Jesus, walking by the sea of Galilee, saw two brethren, Simon called Peter, and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea: for they were fishers. And he saith unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men. And they straightway left their nets, and followed him. And going on from thence, he saw other two brethren, James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother, in a ship with Zebedee their father, mending their nets; and he called them. And they immediately left the ship and their father, and followed him.”

Levi or Matthew was also given a public invitation to follow Christ. Mark 2:13–14 says: “And he went forth again by the sea side; and all the multitude resorted unto him, and he taught them. And as he passed by, he saw Levi the son of Alphaeus sitting at the receipt of custom, and said unto him, Follow me. And he arose and followed him.”

Evangelism Is… Asking for a Response, Part 1 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #106)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Matthew 7:7 which reads: “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.”

Our soul winning quote today is from C. E. Autrey. He said: “If a pastor fails to invite his listeners to accept Christ, he is departing from the practice of the New Testament church.”

Our soul winning devotional is part 89 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler.

Evangelism Is…Asking for a Response (Part 1)

Disciples Are to Catch Fish

A pastor went on a fishing trip every spring with a professional fisherman. The professional fisherman obviously loved Christ and was not shy about boldly proclaiming his faith, as he put it, “with everyone who sat in his boat.”

After two days of listening to exciting stories about his obvious evangelistic prowess, the pastor chimed in and made a simple observation. He said, “I am encouraged to hear about all the people who have heard the message of Christ while sitting in your boat; however, you have yet to mention if any of the people ever repented and surrendered their lives to follow Christ.” Then the pastor asked, “What kind of professional fisherman would you be if you refused to cast your line and bait into the water; after all, is not the purpose of fishing eventually to catch fish?!”

The professional fisherman responded by stating, “What do you mean? I am, after all, being obedient by sharing my faith with unsaved people.”

The pastor replied, “Yes, that is true, but like fishing, you cannot just show up at the lake and expect the fish to jump into the boat. Evangelism is more than merely sharing information and telling inspirational stories. Through the leadership of the Holy Spirit, it is also being intentional about inviting people to follow Christ!”

The pastor’s words cut deep into the heart of the professional fisherman. He responded by promising the pastor that he would have a different testimony when they met again the next spring. The professional fisherman kept a journal of all the people he took on his boat over the next year. By asking for a genuine response to the gospel, the fisherman led more than 200 people to Christ in a single year!

Evangelism Is… Giving a Logical Defense of Your Faith, Part 4 (The Soul-Winning Motivator #105)

Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Acts 4:12 which reads: “Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.”

Our soul winning quote today is from John Piper. He said: “If you alter or obscure the Biblical portrait of God in order to attract converts, you don’t get converts to God, you get converts to an illusion. This is not evangelism, but deception.”

Our soul winning devotional is Evangelism Is…Giving a Logical Defense of Your Faith (Part 4) from Dave Earley and David Wheeler’s book, “Evangelism Is…: How to Share Jesus with Passion and Confidence.”

Here is our last example of how we can give a reason for the hope that is in us when people question our faith:

Shouldn’t We Tolerate Others’ Views? Does It Really Matter What You Believe as Long as You Are Sincere?

Regarding Tolerance. Dave Earley says, “Yes, we should tolerate others’ views but only until those views conflict with the truth.” Tolerance sounds kind and open-minded. But too often tolerance is used as a cover for shortcomings. (“If everything is right, then nothing is wrong. I can ignore the issue of sin and salvation.”)

The biggest problem with “tolerance for tolerance’s sake” is that tolerance is actually cruel when it conflicts with the truth. Truth by its own nature is intolerant of error.

Let’s say a blind man stands on the edge of a cliff, and he turns to you to ask, “Which way should I step?”

I would be cruel to say to him, “Oh, it really doesn’t matter. Just be sincere and do the best you can.” The truth says that if he steps in the wrong direction, he will plunge to his death. But if he’ll turn in another direction, away from the cliff or onto the bridge, he’ll live. Tolerance is no virtue when it ignores reality.

Let’s say a cancer specialist knows you have a malignant tumor in your body that will kill you in a matter of weeks if it isn’t removed. Yet he doesn’t want to seem narrow-minded and intolerant. Of course, he’d certainly hate to offend you, so he says, “If you sincerely believe that the tumor is no problem and you are a pretty good guy, I am sure it will all be OK.”

What would you think of that doctor? How long do you think he would keep his license to practice medicine?

I would rather have a doctor tell me some narrow-minded, offensive truth than some nice little tolerant lie.

By the way, if something is not true, what is it? It is a lie.