Our soul winning passage from the Word of God today is Matthew 7:13-14 which reads: “Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.”
Our soul winning quote today is from Jacquelyn K. Heasley. She said: “How you believe God perceives people will determine how you respond to them.”
Our soul winning devotional is part 91 of our series titled “What Evangelism Is” from Dave Earley and David Wheeler.
Evangelism Is…Asking for a Response (Part 3)
Reasons We Don’t Ask for a Response
Here are some reasons Christians will share the gospel but fail to extend an invitation and ask for a response.
If the Person Says No, How Should I Respond?
The fear of rejection is always the most stated hesitation for not intentionally asking people to respond to the gospel message. Understandably, most people want to be liked and do not want to encounter conflict. They are somehow convinced that people are predisposed to saying no and will not listen.
This is, however, a deceptive misconception created by Satan. If the gospel is presented in a clear and loving manner by an obedient messenger, the person who says no is usually not rejecting the individual but rejecting Christ.
Therefore, if the response is no, ask why. After all, hesitation could be a simple misunderstanding. The key is the leadership of the Holy Spirit. If the person is persistent in giving a no answer, simply back away and ensure that your prayers will continue. Offer to answer any questions and to continue the conversation in the future.
Asking for a Response Seems Unnatural and Forced
People freely discuss sporting events, hobbies, or grandchildren! Unfortunately, the same is not true when it comes to intentionally asking for a response as the result of sharing one’s faith. Often the witness begins to feel awkward and even weird. Such conversations may seem unnatural and pushy. But why?
Paul reminded the Ephesian Christians that we are involved in a spiritual war. Ephesians 6:12 says: “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”
The bottom line is that when a person shares Christ, the witness is being opposed by the dark forces of Satan. As the limited ruler of this earthly domain, he will not easily relinquish a soul into the hands of Christ without a desperate battle. The oppression the witness feels is often spiritual warfare.
Don’t fear; the God who is in you is greater than the enemy who is in the world.